4 Steps to Introduce Sex Toys into Your Relationship

The best sex is achieved when you communicate with your partner what you want. Whether you are a woman or a man who wants to introduce sex toys into the mix, you have to be direct and honest about it. Here are 4 straight forward tips on how to introduce sex toys into your relationship.

Step #1: Communicate

Communicate a desire to have a toy with your partner. Whether you have used a toy solo, with a former partner, or never before, it is important to stress that you are interested in trying something different with your partner. Men and women tend to react the same with an enthusiastic “I’m in” or a “wait a minute”. If insecurities set in, you can alleviate them:

• Male Insecurity: you must stress that an inanimate object does not replace a human. It may vibrate, rotate, and pulsate, but I think men can agree they physically can not do that.  By no means does a women prefer a sex toy to a great sex partner. If she tells you otherwise, she has never been with an incredible lover.
• Female Insecurity: you must stress the toy is for play and fun. Adding a sex toy into the bedroom is not because you aren’t satisfied with her performance, but rather you want to enhance the pleasure for both parties. This may be in the form of a toy or enhancement product. No need to be afraid.

Step #2: Ask Questions

Ask your partner if they have ever thought about using a sex toy with you. Perhaps they have, but never mentioned it before. It can help to know if your partner has used sex toys before for solo play or with a former partner. Not that you need all the details, but it helps alleviate anxiety about the topic.

Step # 3: Shop Together

Shopping for the right sex toy together can be very fun! It is the best way to ensure both parties are comfortable. Friendly sex shop staff can always assist any couple in choosing the best products for them.

Step #4: Enjoy

Take home the toy, set the mood, and enjoy the pleasure. The right sexual enhancement product can really make good sex great and great sex incredible.

Our YouTube Channel had several short videos you may want to check out.

• Learn about the We-Vibe
• Explore Couple’s C-Rings
• Instructional Guides are always helpful when adding something new.