Don’t put away those Halloween costumes just yet! Studies suggest nearly 80% of men and women have specific sexual fantasies in mind. When the time is right, you feel comfortable with your partner, and want to fulfill your sexual fantasy, here are 5 tips to help you do it:
Step 1: What’s your Fantasy
There are a great number of role play fantasies to bring to the bedroom. Let your mind be sexually liberated and free to create fantasy.
You’ll be pleased to know men and women share several fantasies in common. The following fantasies are shared among the sexes:
- having sex with a stranger is number 1 and 2 for women and men, respectively. The sexual intensity of being with someone new is highly erotic and stimulating. Try rendezvousing in a hotel bar, making small talk and flirty. Then you can slip him your key!
- voyeurism or exhibitionism is number 1 for men and right up there for women. Whether he wants to watch you solo or she wants someone to watch her with you, the act of “the show” is what makes this fantasy sizzle.
- being dominant in bed is yet another role play scenario making the short list for men and women. In fact, women say they fantasize of being dominant in bed, and men say they want to be dominated by their woman. Perfect!
Step 2: Communicate
Communication is key in any relationship. You have to be honest about your sexual desires. If you are with someone you trust then telling him/her you want to role play should be easy. There’s nothing like talking about your sexual desires while lying next to one another at night all snuggled up under the covers. Talking naughty and discussing your role play ideas before bedtime can lead to some pretty incredible dreams!
Step 3: Set Limits
Depending on the type of fantasy you have and what role play scenario you’ve crafted, you have to remember safety is key. This doesn’t just apply to whips and chains, but any and all role play activities. What and how far are you willing to go? Decide the best “safe word” if you want to stop. Please make sure you discuss limits and never do anything you don’t feel comfortable with.
Step 4: Prepare for the Role
A role play scenario tends to require a bit more effort than your 11 minute romp. You need to make sure the stage is set, the costumes, wigs, and make-up are just as your mind suggests, and you have time to live out your fantasy.
Step 5: Enjoy your Sexy Role Play Adventure
Have you ever tried sexual role play? If so, what are some of your tips for couples looking to explore with fantasy.
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