Desiree's Desires, Inc.I know a couple who have been married for at least 35 years who say the reason they are still married is because they spend seasons apart. She still works, he’s retired. He goes to Florida for the winter and she gets to spend time doing winter activities she loves. She will take the occasional flight to meet up for a romantic rendezvous weekend, if she feels like it. I once asked her what she planned to do when she retires, go to Florida? Hell, no. They are sticking to the plan, and it is working.
I’m not suggesting spending entire seasons apart is necessary for a successful partnership, but doing things apart is a really good thing for men and women. For example, she likes to dance and do crosswords; he likes to bike and swim; they both like to watch sports and vacation. Having time to explore and carry out your own interests keep you independent and provide your own support network making the time you spend together that much more special.
What do you like to do that your partner doesn’t?