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Sensual Massage for Couples
The act of erotic or sensual massage has been in practice for centuries. Using massage techniques to deliver enhanced sexual excitement or arousal to your partner’s erogenous zones can be quite thrilling. In fact, sex therapy techniques include sensual massage in order to increase libido and enhance stimulation.
Best times to use Sensual Massage
Sensual Massage is best during foreplay and afterplay. When used during foreplay, sensual massage is a natural way to increase libido, deliver blood flow to genitals and nipples, and provide a heightened sense of sexual excitement. It’s a great way for men and women to get in the mood. When used during afterplay, sensual massage gives your partner a relaxing and calming effect. There is no better way to wind down than to feel relaxed. Sensual massage can offer a soothing effect after sex.
Where to start
massage products: make sure you have a product to help with your strokes. Not all massage products are the same. Sensual massage oils, candles, and glides are the top genres to consider.
Oils: these are very light and apply very easily. Massage oils don’t absorb quickly, so they last longer. However, they are oil-based and can stain easily.
Candles: these are usually soy based and sometimes vegan. Very natural ingredients as many come in edible varieties. You burn the candle to create ambiance in the bedroom, and then use the residue oil for your massage. It will be naturally warm. It will not burn your skin. The downside is potential staining of sheets.
Glides: these are water and silicone based lubricants made specifically for massage. They are highly concentrated, so a little goes a very long way. Plus, they clean up very nicely. No oily residue, and no stains in the sheets.
massage techniques: the best way to discover the proper techniques for sensual massage is to read or watch an instructional guide. You can learn about creating the perfect setting, satisfying all five senses, relaxing the body, and find new erogenous zones through intimacy and sensual touching.
enjoy: this goes without saying, but sometimes we forget to do it!
Is sensual massage something on your winter must do list? It’s a great way to stay warm and get hot!!