Desiree's Desires, Inc.4 Must Knows about Anal Sex
January means it’s time to try something new. When it comes to sex, finding something new is endless. There are so many fun and exciting sexy things to try. This week alone, we have helped numerous costumers get into the anal sex game. We want our blog readers to know the basics too. Here’s are 4 must knows about anal sex that we explain to all our anal virgins:
- Don’t forget, it’s a muscle: made to contract, the anal sphincter is truly a muscle. Like any muscle you need to stimulate and massage it to make sure it’s in working order. Follow me on this one: throughout most of our lives, we only use our anus to do one thing, which involves removal or pushing out. It’s not typical we are shoving something up there. Therefore, it’s best to stimulate, relax, and moisturize to get going in the anal department.
- Stimulate the area: you need to be relaxed. Perhaps a glass of wine or a shot of vodka will do the trick! If you need something direct to calm and relax the muscle, try external vibration to stimulate your muscle. Any old bullet will do to help you relax. You don’t need to insert the vibrator, just use it externally to stimulate the area.
- Try a new anal toy: an anal starter like the Tushy Teaser, Li’l End, or the anal trainer kit are great toys to introduce yourself into the world of anal. They are good for men and women.
- Lube up: water-based lube is a great go-to for any type of sex. If you are using anal toys, water-based is typically the preferred lube. Silicone lube is best when you are ready to have anal sex with a partner. There are anal formulas with extra glide or formulas that provide desensitizing, as well.
We hope these 4 tips will help you understand your tushy a little better! These 4 quick and easy anal sex tips are just the beginner’s basics.
Who’s looking to try something new? Do you think anal sex is for you?